IT'S OK IF YOU AREN'T SURE IF A DIVORCE IS THE BEST THING FOR YOU
EVEN WHEN YOU'RE PRETTY SURE YOUR MARRIAGE IS IN TROUBLE
Only you know how long you've been unhappy in your marriage.
The days when you're just trying to "keep it together" are getting harder.
You've been super focused on making sure the kids are "good"...always thinking about everyone else...
But who's looking out for you?
You're not sure if you actually need an attorney at this point.
Honestly, figuring out if you can afford the house on your own (or if you should just walk away from it) seems more important.
Making sure you can pay all the bills by yourself is a little scary & it's a question you haven't quite answered yet.
Your best friend is trying to support you & give you good advice but crying your eyes out on the phone every other night is starting not to feel helpful.
Maybe it seems like it's too early to get help because you're just "thinking" about getting a divorce.
We get it.
However, if that "thought" is on repeat - it's not too early.
Deep down you probably know that your marriage is over but figuring out a way to end it without it being complicated, nasty, or expensive is another story.
We know it's possible to protect your sanity & your future should you decide to divorce.
You deserve that...to say the least.
But how can you make that happen?
Especially when you're already emotionally drained and you haven't shared how you're feeling with those closest to you.
It's not the right time to tell your family.
You don't want everyone all in your business giving unsolicited advice and asking questions you're not ready to answer.
Mainly because you don't even have the answers to give.
However, you know, at some point soon, you'll need to make some decisions & figure out the best way to move forward.
It'd be great not to have to figure it all out by yourself.
Because of all this, we created The Silent Preparation Series. We want to help you take small steps now to get the answers you need for your future.
“Moves made in silence can be louder than you think"
The Silent Preparation Series (SPS) is a digital resource for female breadwinners who want to learn (privately & at their own pace) how to divorce, in a healthy, but strategic, way.
It's OK if you aren't fully ready to give up on your marriage.
Going through the preparation process can help bring you clarity & financial peace of mind whether you get divorced or not.
Use our online portal, after the kids go to bed or when your soon-to-be-ex falls asleep on the couch, to learn where to start & what to do when considering a divorce.
Whether you're undecided about filing, tired of trying to save your marriage, or were recently blindsided by your husband's desire to divorce, the Silent Preparation Series helps you prepare for your next move & understand:
-How you can begin to heal before the divorce is even final
-About the cost of different modern divorce options
- Common divorce mistakes to avoid
- What a fair settlement actually looks like
- How not to let him push your buttons
- How you can save money on your divorce
- The steps to have the post-divorce life you envision
"Wow, what an awesome set of resources for those contemplating divorce! Definitely gives someone the roadmap for the journey, while adding a personal touch with well-thought thorough advice. As a man, I would not want my wife [future ex-wife] using the SPS..actually, I'd want it for myself!"
Feeling overwhelmed, alone, pissed, scared, and powerless all in one week is normal.
Maybe you've confided in 1 or 2 people who you really trust, but you still have questions such as :
- Am I truly ready to give up on the marriage
- How is child support going to be calculated
- When should I contact an attorney and what should I ask
- When will things go back to normal
- How much will a divorce cost you
Divorce can feel intimidating & lonely. You need the right people in your corner to help.
Hi, I'm Nikki Tucker
I know that women often get the shitty end of the deal in a divorce and quite honestly it's frustrating for me to continue to witness.
So I'm using my college degrees, certifications, and years of experience in finance and training as a Certified Divorce Financial Analyst to support my mission to reframe the divorce experience.
I help working women overcome uncertainty & overwhelm while preparing for divorce so that they can rebuild their lives and regain financial peace of mind.
Use the Silent Preparation Series (SPS) as your secret weapon to understanding how a divorce can impact you & be equipped to have the financial security you deserve.
Think of SPS as a virtual best friend who introduces you to people you didn't know you needed and answers questions you didn't even know you had.
Help Me, Help You!
Do you want to feel more informed & confident about where to start in the process?
Do you know that you have options to protect your money?
Are you looking for information relevant to your unique situation?
The average divorce takes 9 to 18 months from start to finish. Take advantage of an offer made with hard-working women in mind to get the help you need from the very beginning.
Get access for 1 year to the Silent Preparation Series for only $249
Why Do I Need This Resource Now?
Remember that thing I said about being strategic?
Developing your "plan" from an informed position helps to prevent unwanted surprises.
Here are a few other reasons:
Time is quite literally money when it comes to ending your marriage.
> Learn who & what resources are available to support you BEFORE you start this journey or announce this decision to your family & friends.
> Don't get blindsided before & during negotiations
> Let's find out if you really do need to stay until the kid's move out
> Get priority access to real-life divorce stories and future FIIRM Approach divorce resources
If keeping more money in your pocket & saving money on your divorce is important, this digital resource is for you!
The Silent Preparation Series is a GOOD fit if...
=You live in the continental U.S. and are legally married
=The scale is tipping more toward tired of trying vs. fighting for your marriage
=You think the kids need you to stay together
= It feels like it may just be "cheaper to keep him"
= You want to understand what you're both legally entitled to have
=He told you he's not going to give you anything if you try to negotiate in a divorce
= You're tired of trying to figure out everything on your own
=You've uttered the words “I don't even know where to start"
Does the Silent Preparation Series cover ALL things divorce? No, but it helps remove the paralysis of what to do first. We've done the heavy lifting for you.
What if I'm crazy busy? You can dive into the information when your life allows & only utilize the resources that you need!
What's included in this program?
Here's what your $249 investment covers:
- 1 year of access (just in case your prep takes a bit longer or you need more time to make a decision)
- Discreet digital delivery (we'll keep your secret - there will be no divorce package mailed to your doorstep)
- Consolidated information (Stop wasting hours Googling - get the downloadable Ultimate Divorce Resource Guide (40+ pages of info including cost, links, and descriptions of your modern divorce options)
- Short Expert On-Demand Videos from a divorce attorney, divorce coach, therapist & divorce financial strategist covering how to select the right professionals, what to ask, how to prepare, and how to keep your divorce costs down
- Printable & Fillable Worksheets & Checklists to help you uncover what YOU really want out of your divorce, what assets you have, and how to plan for negotiations.
We help women feel secure in their ability to provide for themselves and their families. You work hard for your money, we want to help you keep it.
-The FIIRM Approach
There's no question that divorce threatens your financial security and can send you on an emotional rollercoaster.
It can be hard to keep it all together on your own.
Here's what others have to say about how Silent Preparation Series can help!
"This is an excellent tool that helps pull the bandaid off at your own pace, time & space. It's a healthy practice, in general, to create options ahead of time and lead the conversations rather than letting someone else lead and lock you into something you don't want"
"Impressive resource & worth the money. I like that it lays out a path plus the PDFs are easy to follow"
Utilizing professionals to get you through your divorce is not just for the wealthy!
I've included trusted divorce experts in this series to help you learn that it's possible to build your personal divorce team!
Learn how building a divorce team to help you along this journey can actually SAVE you money & give you peace of mind.
Grab your 1-year access to the Silent Preparation Series at the one-time Investment of $249!
I consciously took away the issue of "not being able to afford to prepare" as this option is cheaper than ONE hour with most attorneys, therapists, and coaches.
There’s no question that you can piece together advice from different blog posts, books, podcasts, articles, and horror stories advice from your friends to help you!
But I guarantee you all the TIME you spend doing that work is worth way more than $249.
It's ok if you're not even entirely sure that you will end up divorced. At this point, I just want you to have critical information IF you do!
$249 is a no-brainer investment to get help as you consider divorce, especially help that includes:
* 1 year of access, *Comprehensive Divorce Resource Guide, *Short On-Demand Videos, *Worksheets & Checklists
Not quite ready to invest in the Silent Preparation Series
Just remember the next time you find yourself turning over & silently crying yourself to sleep or thinking "my life would be so much better without him", that SPS is still here for you.
The decision to end your marriage is never easy but you can come out OK on the other side.